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Can Christian Dating Services Work For Me?
Aug 31st
Believe in yourself first
Are you wondering if online dating is for you as a Christian woman or man? Have you almost given up hope of finding that perfect partner for your life?
As a Christian, it is important to remember that God has a plan and a purpose for our lives (Jeremiah). He wants far more for us than we want for ourselves.
The Bible says "Love your neighbour as yourself" - which clearly means that we have to love and care for ourselves first, before we can truly love anyone else.
Traditionally, Christians, and often women, have had a priority list that looks something like this:-
1. God 2. Husband/wife 3. Kids 4. Family/parents 5. Work 6. Church 7. Myself & my own needs
Don't be fooled - this may feel like the "Christian" thing to do - but this is not God's model for success.
Yes, we are called to serve, but not at the cost of sacrificing ourselves utterly. Jesus met his own needs for food, shelter, quiet times away with God - he didn't try to go all out without making time for the important things which enabled him to carry on.;
A Christian priority list should read more like this:-
1. God 2. Myself 3. Husband/wife 4. Kids 5. Family & friends 6. you get the idea!
Don't let any man or woman define you - instead, know who you are in Christ.
If you are looking for meaning & purpose, you will not find it in any one person, except in Jesus alone.
These priorities will help you when you find your marriage partner. So often in marriage, mistaken priorities can lead to the destruction of a marriage. Your ministry and your job should come after your husband or wife. Don't put your ministry or career before your partner - they don't depend on you anyway - they depend on God. Your partner and children need you today, your ministry or career will wait tomorrow. (Remember, no-one is every known to have said on their deathbed that they wished they'd spent more time at the office!)
Remember, "be kind to yourself" . Be involved in activities outside of your work and relationship, keep your friendships, have interest, care for other people.
If you can be confident that you are loveable, then you will have the confidence to be yourself in a relationship and still expect to be loved. This is the first step to starting a successful and lasting relationship.
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How To Have Fun Without Blowing Your Budget
May 6th
Whether you have been with your partner 3 months or 30 years, spending quality time together is an essential part of keeping a relationship on the right track. The good news is that even if you are really strapped for cash, you can still have great times together.
A quick call to your local trade of commerce or a look online should bring up a host of activities or events in your locality which either cost only a couple of bucks or are free. This is especially good in the summer as you can attend outdoor theater shows or concerts.
Due to the current economic clime, there are some real bargains to be had on theater and movies tickets during off peak times. It surely makes sense to be able to have 2 nights out midweek than just 1 on a Saturday. You get to spend more time together and save money.
Why not combine your date with taking some physical activity. Go on a long bicycle ride down one of the trails, or dig out your old tennis racket and head for the local park and have a few games on the free courts.
When we go camping, one of our essential items is the cheap and cheerful badminton set. Dig it out and play together in the back yard.
Everyone is struggling financially at the minute; gas prices are rising constantly and babysitters don't come cheap. There are some great nights in to be had with your loved one with are extremely frugal.
If you have young kids wait until after they are in bed, older kids can be bribed to stay out of the way with extra computer time etc. Then why not have a romantic picnic on the living room floor, or out in the yard?
When you have a busy life with kids etc it's very easy to start taking your relationship with your partner for granted. Spend as much time together as you can without the TV set, kids and other distractions.
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Chamomile Flower – Good For Health and Relationships
Oct 15th
Flowers have a lot more uses than just for sending your wishes and feelings of love. For all their benefits, all nations have their own national flowers. The US and UK share a common one " the Rose while Lotus has been adopted by India for various reasons.
The Chamomile is the national flower of Russia. Now there are reasons why Russia chose it as its national flower. You have to read a lot about local history and traditions. Chamomile is available in bright colors and has a pleasant fragrance. It grows at most areas here and in some other countries.
It looks very beautiful with white petals along with a inner yellow core. People often gift this flower to their relatives and friends on various important days. It also commands respect and sends feelings of love.
No doubt that Chamomile is gorgeous and is used by Russians to gift it to others, but there are many health benefits of this flower as well. It has some medical importance and is known to cure many health conditions.
Chamomile is recommended for patients suffering from Hysteria and nervous disorders. It is also effective in typhoid patients and those suffering from sprains and bruises. It can also heal calluses in patients.
The oil extracted from the Chamomile flower has many medical benefits. It is used for treatment of various conditions including pain, toothaches, cough and cold. It is even helpful for those suffering from asthma.
It is dried and kept for long. Tea is also made from Chamomile flowers and it assists in getting a better sleep. Its oil also works great for getting shiny hair. It is also mixed with water before taking a bath.
So there is a lot of importance of Chamomile. It is rather a valuable herb that is effective in treating many health conditions. It can be abundantly found in Russia and deserves to be the national flower.
